Well, I plan to give you all the background information necessary before I dive right into that, but let's just say in 6 1/2 years of marriage we have been through ALOT!!!! We are at a "do or die" crossroad in our marriage & I don't know what's going to happen, what is the right thing to do or how any of this will end up, but I know that I need to get my story, thoughts, feelings, concerns, happiness, anger, etc. out & in an anonymous way. That would be why I decided on the fictitious names.
Everyone is welcome to leave comments, suggestions, advice, etc., but it must be done in a respectable way, no one is to assume their advice is the best, no one can say what they know they would do (unless of course you've been through it) because trust me, I never thought I would do what I've done so far either! I guess you really never do know until you are in that situation yourself after all. Please keep in mind that this is only MY side of the story, only 1 side every story has 2 sides, but I am only telling you mine, wonder what he would tell you? No attacking each others advice or me.....got it? OK then, moving forward.
I'm not going to get into much of my life today except to introduce you to the people in my life whom I love. First is my husband, the person I am traveling this bumpy road with, we'll call him Mr. Mania. Sounds fitting to me. Then there is our oldest child who we will call Brain well, because the child is very smart, I know this not just because I am the mom & biased, but because we have actually had Brain's IQ tested & found out what we've always suspected, Brain functions way above average. The next child on our list we will call Temper, mostly because there are lots of temper tantrums thrown by Temper. We are working on fixing this as Temper is only 4, going to be 5 in 8 days.....don't remind me, but how on Earth did 5 years go so fast?
So now that I've introduced you to everyone I will give you a quick synopsis of our background in my next post. This cannot be done in one post completely so if anything gets sketchy as we go ask questions I may have forgotten I hadn't let you in on that part yet & would be happy to fill in any blanks. So go pass the word to your friends, continue reading & commenting & I will hopefully do the background tomorrow or Sunday! Check back for that.
thanks for visiting our blog (a corgi in southern california) and your comment. I think having a blog like this to get your thoughts out and to vent about things is a good thing, especially doing it anonymously as you are doing! Marriage is hard work (and it doesn't get any easier, LOL, married for 30 years here and still trying to figure it all out).
ReplyDeletewill read as I can your bumpy journey
betty